Accidents Happen
We understand, OP; accidents are inevitable, and this delightful mishap has a silver lining. Concerned parties should rest assured that the OP would not have pursued the marriage if he had harbored doubts. Staying committed for a decade affirms the strength of his choice.
Sometimes, individuals require a gentle push to pursue their true desires. It appears that the sequence in which the gifts were opened provided the exact nudge this individual needed.